Let’s take a examine the opposite aspect of the spectrum… considering different perspectives of a situation can be very difficult as most people prefer to look at only one perspective. Certain people, due to feeling strongly about their own view that they’re not willing to even attempt to look at a different perspective. Some, because a different perspective would reveal unsettling truth they aren’t ready to accept.
Let me explain I used to believe in myself and be satisfied with myself caring for and making sure that everyone I loved was in good health. Mind you I’m not saying this isn’t a wonderful way of being, because I believe that it is. However, in taking the care of all people before my own I’m sure you can guess who was not taken by the hand? As I made sure that everyone was in good health, all my energy, time money, and affection was focused on a different person. In the course each day week, or in the course of a month, I didn’t get the time I deserved for myself. When I came to the conclusion of the day I absorbed it as me not being as important as the other people around me.
I’ve been talking often on The Law of Attraction and I believe that this is true. Our brains are larger than we even comprehend at times. Your brain can decide what we think about through our thoughts. Not only the thoughts we think, but also our perceptions. As with like attracts like in our thoughts when you consider these thoughts as negative, you will attract more “negativity” into your life.
Have you ever seen an event unfolding with two completely different people and two completely different, opposing responses? Perhaps one person behaved calm and cool and calm, while the other one was prone to a rage and cause a snowball effect of negativity within their own world during the day. For instance, a person who is in traffic and is not moving is extremely angry and finds their mood sour then for the remainder of the day, the negative mood swells up and becomes more pronounced as various negative events occur such as the copier not working upon your arrival at work, or food becoming cold once you take it. The other does not mind sitting in the traffic and takes pleasure in the time to themselves for a few minutes. They know that there’s no way to change this, and perhaps dancing and singing to their favorite tune is what they do. The process of taking a negative experience and turning it into a positive one on it is incredibly difficult, but it is also satisfying.
It’s not about who is right or incorrect, but to recognize that your brain is able to take in every aspect of your life. Also, your brain is able to internally process things you consider as being right or wrong. If we could let go of the judgements of others and ourselves, and allow every encounter we experience before us to assist us in growing and gain more confidence We would also gain more health. The same way that your brain draws to you the things you take in without even realizing it the body also attracts to you what it sees. The body is no different. Your body will give you small indications that something is wrong on a regular basis. The majority of people are habitually ignoring these signals that they are unable to be aware of them. If you put on your own negative feelings and hold them inside, they are stored within your body, manifesting as painful and soreness. After your body has been screaming at your for some time the body starts to develop the symptoms of disease.
The pains, aches, or tightness in particular parts of the body typically, they are related to the emotions you are holding onto within you. It may sound absurd however it’s because the majority of people aren’t really conscious of what’s going through their bodies. I can say without any certainty that it is likely to be the case because I’ve personally experienced it. Through a lot of counseling and reading , and a desire to be healed that I realized this might be the case. Being raised in a family in which children were expected only seen but not heard one could have be conditioned to believe that one’s voice and opinions were irrelevant. The same child could become quiet and not ever have an opinion throughout her entire life. This is the exact child who will end up later in life, suffering from Thyroid Cancer.
There are those who consider the right and wrongs in the situation as a matter of judgment, however it isn’t essential or the main point. Some may decide to gain a better awareness and see the larger view that any negative emotion that is internalized will cause discomfort, pain and eventually, disease in the long run if it is kept inside for too long. Being the child I mentioned, I am making an effort each day today to tell my truth, regardless of how I feel about how it is accepted. I don’t believe in the wrong or right of a situation based on my judgment and instead take the lessons learned and be aware of my worth. This is not an easy task that is not only to me but also for many others.
These are some of the problems that are directly connected to emotional states that we can be aware of and help us heal:
Head Pain
Often times, head pain signifies being overwhelmed. If you just acknowledge that you’re overwhelmed and then find an effective, healthy method to overcome it, you could easily get over it. Do you enjoy cooking or write, dance or draw? Choose one of these activities you enjoy and spend some well-deserved time to relax. Spend some time with yourself to meditate for a while. Be sure to remind yourself that you’re worthy and you’re worth it!
Neck Pain
The physical signs of neck pain may have been linked to disc disease or osteoporosis. If you notice these symptoms you could be trying to hold onto your fears of living emotionally or feeling insecure. These emotions may be assisting you be stubborn and rigid. If this is something you can see, take the initiative to consider the other perspective of the issue and accept that there isn’t a either or the other, just lessons that will help you to develop and become more grounded and well.
Shoulder Pain
The physical signs of shoulder pain could indicate that you’re carrying the entire weight of life on your shoulders, but aren’t taking time to take care of self-care. Shoulder pain could manifest due to our individual ability to live life with gratitude and joy and not as an burden. Learn from the experience and develop. Make time for yourself and for the health of your body, mind and soul!
Upper Back Pain
Upper back pain typically manifests its self as feelings of a lack in emotional security. The feeling of being rejected or not being loved enough, show up. This reminds us that we are the sole source of our personal happiness. It is important to keep in mind in the final analysis, we are the ones responsible for our satisfaction. Get what you desire, regardless of how uncomfortable it might be. You deserve the same and more! !
Middle Back Pain
The most common sign of back pain in the middle is itself as guilt or simply feeling caught up in the past. This is also an opportunity to reflect on the issue, and not place blame, or right and wrong, but rather for the development of your own happiness right now.
Lower Back Pain
Physical signs associated with lower back discomfort can manifest as pelvic issues, kidney stones or colon problems. The symptoms can be present when you’re feeling anxious or have a lack of financial assistance. A nagging issue within this region could cause you to be in a perpetual anxiety, as you might be thinking, “What if I can’t work because of this?” Do you see this snowball? It could be devastating If you’re the one who is letting it happen. Listen to your body, and identify the root of the discomfort. Make sure you complete what is required to be done to let go of the emotional burdens that are causing your body discomfort.
Knee Pain
Knee pain is a sign that you are unable to move our knees or be stiff regarding certain topics, emotions or even emotions. Keep in mind that there are two completely different kinds of people in the world, and there are three different sides to each story. At all times nothing is really important. It doesn’t matter who is right or wrong, or what’s happened. Your happiness is the only thing that truly is important. It’s all about what we learn and learn from these events and how we treat ourselves at the end of the day that keeps us whole and healthy.
